The blessing of a daughter

By the authority of  Anas Ibn Malik (Radia Allahu anhu) who said:

"The Messenger of Allah (Salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam) said: " Whoever takes care of two girls until they reach adulthood , he and I will be like this on the Day of Juzgement" and then next his fingers." (Saheh Muslim)

On the authority of Aishah (Radia Allahu anha) who said:

" A lady along with her two daughters came to me asking for some alms, but she found nothing with me except one date which I gave her. She divided it between her to daughters, and did not eat anything herself, and then got up and went away. Then the Prophet ( Salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam ) came in and I informed him about this story, he said: “Whoever is put to trial by these daughters and he treats them generously (with benevolence) then these daughters will act as a shield for him from Hellfire.” (Saheh Bukhari and Saheh Muslim)

An Nawawi (Rahimahu Allah) said: They are refered to them because they dislike them by the custom , Allah (Azza wa Jall) said:

 

 

(And when one of them is informed of [the birth of] a female, his face becomes dark, and he suppresses grief.) (Surah An nahl, 58)

 

An Nawawi (rahimahu Allah) said:  In them are found the merits of being kind with the girls and keeping them and being patient with them and their issues." (Explanation of Saheh Muslim by Imam An Nawawi)

On the authority on Ibn Uqbah  'Aamir ( Radia Allahu anhu) who said:

" I heard the Messenger of Allah (Salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam) say: Whoever has three daughters and is patient with them and wears them with his wealth , they will be for him a protection from the Fire." (Imam Bukhari in his book Adaabul Al-Mufraad and is the only authentic)

Allah (Subhanna wa ta'ala) says about the rights of women:

  "For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good" ( An nisa, 19)

 

On the other hand , the servant could find many good things in them , in this life and in the other. Since it is sufficient for the believer the fact that what you  do not like but Allah like it, be in it a future benefict:

SOURCE: AL INTISAR LIHOKOKI ALMOMINAT  of Umm Salamah As Salafiyyah, pags, 23-25)