SOURCE: Yami'al Thirmidi :2396"If Allah wills good for His servant, He hurries in the punishment for his sins in this life.But when Allah wants not good for His servant, He delays the punishment until the Day of Juzgement."
"Faith (Iman) is not strong except with words (right). The faith and the words are not solid except with (good) deeds . And the faith, the words and deeds are not solid except with the intentions (right) in accordance to the sunnah.Those who were before our salafs did not separate the faith of the facts: The deeds are part of the faith and faith is from them (the deeds of one).The Iman is a word that links these aspects of religion (of Allah) and is confirmed by the deeds of (a person).
Then anyone who believes in the word, knows in his heart and confirms (his beliefs) through his deeds, then this is the strongest handhold that will never break. And whoever says (words of faith) but does not know (faith) in his heart , nor confirm with his deeds will never be accepted and he will be in the next life of those suffering in perdition".
SOURCE: Ibn Battah, Al-Ibânah Al-Kubrâ art. 1097.
"The Messenger of Allah (Salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam) said: " Whoever takes care of two girls until they reach adulthood , he and I will be like this on the Day of Juzgement" and then next his fingers." (Saheh Muslim)On the authority of Aishah (Radia Allahu anha) who said:
" A lady along with her two daughters came to me asking for some alms, but she found nothing with me except one date which I gave her. She divided it between her to daughters, and did not eat anything herself, and then got up and went away. Then the Prophet ( Salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam ) came in and I informed him about this story, he said: “Whoever is put to trial by these daughters and he treats them generously (with benevolence) then these daughters will act as a shield for him from Hellfire.” (Saheh Bukhari and Saheh Muslim)An Nawawi (Rahimahu Allah) said: They are refered to them because they dislike them by the custom , Allah (Azza wa Jall) said:
An Nawawi (rahimahu Allah) said: In them are found the merits of being kind with the girls and keeping them and being patient with them and their issues." (Explanation of Saheh Muslim by Imam An Nawawi)(And when one of them is informed of [the birth of] a female, his face becomes dark, and he suppresses grief.) (Surah An nahl, 58)
" I heard the Messenger of Allah (Salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam) say: Whoever has three daughters and is patient with them and wears them with his wealth , they will be for him a protection from the Fire." (Imam Bukhari in his book Adaabul Al-Mufraad and is the only authentic)Allah (Subhanna wa ta'ala) says about the rights of women:
On the other hand , the servant could find many good things in them , in this life and in the other. Since it is sufficient for the believer the fact that what you do not like but Allah like it, be in it a future benefict:"For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good" ( An nisa, 19)
"Know my son , that days are just hours, and the hours are just breaths, and every soul is a container, from there, do not let any breath pass without any benefict, so that during the Day of Juzgement you find an empty container and lament !SOURCE: Laftat al-Kabid fi Nasihat al-Walad.
Be aware of every hour and how this pass and spend it just as well as possible, do not neglect!But let it habituated to the most noblest and best of actions, and send to your grave that which will please, when you get to it."
