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The righteous slave shu'ayb ( Rahimahu Allah) wanted to get married. When he saw her, he like what he saw and she agreed on him as well . But he feared she would not be patient of his temper and 'akhlaaq , so he said to her: "Know that I am of bad akhlaaq (temper)". She replied to him like a wise , mature and patient wife and said : "Worse than you in akhlaaq , is the one who causes you to be bad tempered". He liked her reply and told her immediately " Your my wife".
SOURCE: Al Athkiyaa' of Ibn al-Jawzee (Rahimahu Allah)
QUESTION: What is the ruling concerning ululation?
ANSWER: All praise is due to Allah , the Lord of the Worlds. Peace and blessing be upon whom Allah sent as a mercy to the Worlds , upon his Family, his Companions and his Brothers till the Day of Resurrection.
Ululation, espresses joy, and it is not excluded from permmited songs in marriage and 'Eid. Ululation should not go beyond the gathering of the women.
The perfect knowledge belonds to Allah (Azza wa jal). Our last prayer is all praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds. Peace and blessings be upon our Prophet, his Family,and his Companions and Brothers till the Day of Resurrection.
SOURCE: Fatawa 545 of Shaikh Ferkous, (Hafidahu Allah) taken from the web of the Shaikh.
Is getting married at an early age diverts from gaining knowledge ?
As for saying that getting married at an early age diverts from gaining knowledge and from studying , this is not the case. Rather , the opposite of this is correct because tranquility , peace of mind, and pleasure never cease to be obtained through marriage. These things help the student to reach his goal because , he has peace of mind and his thoughts are not cluttered due to discomfort and this helps him study.
Now in the other hand abstaining from marriage in reality blocks whatever knowledge he wants to attain, because it is not possible to acquire knowledge in a state of confusion and anxiety. However ,if he gets married, his mind is at rest and his soul is at ease. He gets a house to take as a shelter and a wife who relaxes and helps him. These things help him to attain knowledge.
If Allah makes it easy for the student to pursue knowledge. Matrimony does not block the path to knowledge as some believe. for that reason, having children is an enormous blessing in this life and in the next.
SOURCE: Shaykh Al Fawzan (Hafidhahu Allah) in MATRIMONY AT AN EARLY AGE AND ITS BENEFITS , taken from ISLAAM’S SOLUTION FOR THE PROBLEMS FACING TODAY’S YOUTH, Pgs. 44-48
